S-Types, Your Voice Matters
PSA to new/er s-types: Please know that as an s-type your voice matters and you can take all the time you need to feel safe with someone before submitting to a D- type in any way. They must earn your submission! Even if you crave to completely surrender to someone it's important to have conversations first around safety, boundaries, consent and safe words. Also please vet them before meeting and playing in person with a D-type, especially if you're going to be alone... Lastly, it is my strong opinion that your D-type is supposed to help bring out the very best in you and make you feel safe even if they plan to use up your filthy holes and treat you like a dirty wh0re!!
There are many fake Doms out there that don't know what the fu*k they're doing and will use this title to harm others.
I just received this message from someone and there are so many red flags here. He obviously doesn't know who I am so had the nerve to send something like this to me and I just don't want any s-type to fall into this. He didn't even properly introduce himself or say hello. Just this:
"In Denver for four months. Looking for a submissive girl who is open to an exclusive arrangement. I don’t believe in slow build. I’m only interested in a woman who craves being fully used, stretched, and filled—no limits, no protections, no questions. First meet is not a warm-up. You'll be obedient, and ready for intensity most women can’t handle. exclusivity is critical. Not for everyone so understand if not!"
This is fu*king crazy to me! — no limits, no protections, no questions" and no "warm-up"??!??
Anyways, I've had femme s-types ask me things around what's ok or not. For example, one time a guy was trying to get my friend (who was wanting to explore her submissive side) to send him nudes of her and they didn't even meet in person yet..I don't even think they video chatted. She felt uncomfortable with it so checked in with me about it. I reminded her to not do anything shes not comfortable with, especially cause they had zero conversations about safety boundaries etc etc ..
That's all! Just seriously trying to look out for the s-types out there...