“If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try.”

— Seth Godin

I am not your typical dominatrix, or so I’ve been told. I enjoy creating a safe space that is free of judgment or stigma so that a person has full permission to explore and embrace their kinks and or fetishes, heal, and celebrate their sexual expression. I consider myself to be a lightworker who loves to play in the dark erotic arts to break barriers, which can then lead to deep connection and transformation. I often go to places most won’t dare to go.

My intention is to co-create an experience where you feel safe and secure to ask (or beg) for what you desire. Just as each and every individual is unique, I strive to create an experience that is unique to you where you feel seen, heard, and held.

As someone who is heavily into kink, a wide range of play and scenarios are possible. My sessions are very intimate, heart-centered, erotic, and truly engaging with an intuitive and empathetic approach. No matter how out there you think your kink or fetish is, try me. I enjoy taking people to new depths that can be transformative. 

Some of you may have shame, guilt, or embarrassment regarding your kinks and fetishes. Some of you may have never shared your deepest darkest fantasies and or secrets with anyone until now. There is no kink-shaming when you come into my world so please do not hesitate to ask me anything. What you share will stay with me and I will honor and protect your confidentiality.

I respect confidentiality and people’s need to be discreet and I have no tolerance for people who do not respect boundaries or slut-shame. I am sex-positive, body-positive and I do not discriminate against anyone. I am accepting of all races, classes, cultures, ages, genders, appearances, religions, and sexual orientations. I am open-minded and do my best to cater to everyone’s individual desires. I invite you to come as you are, and together we will delve into the possibilities of your submission and or desires. 

Trust, open communication, vulnerability and honesty is core to my practice. I feel deeply honored and grateful when people choose to trust me with their feelings, desires, and curiosity. I am very much into sharing new experiences with others, exploring edges, and going deep if people choose to go there with me. I am a firm believer in healing through kink and I enjoy getting people into an altered state or ‘subspace’. My intention is to help people feel at home with all aspects of themselves and for their mind, body and soul to feel in harmony.

Personally, I am as sensual as I am sadistic. I identify as a sensual sadist. I love the thought of making you my pain slut (anywhere from light to extreme) and taking control of you. However, if you are not into pain, that is more than OK!! I will respect your boundaries! There are many other types of play we can engage in. If you are interested in a therapeutic touch or cuddle session or more of a tantric massage experience, please inquire about it. Or if you have other ideas, let me know!

You’ll find that I am easy to talk to and care very much about building a relationship with those who choose to share energy with me. I have a fun, sensual, and playful personality. I am very direct and transparent in my communication and often communicate with my eyes. I care very much about people’s overall well-being and my goal is to leave people better than how I found them.

I take consent and boundaries very seriously. I believe trust needs to be established between both parties; therefore, open and honest communication is of utmost importance to me. Any play that takes place will be negotiated ahead of time. When exploring new kinks people do not always know their limits. Therefore, I tend to err on the side of caution and communicate throughout any play scenario; especially if we are just getting to know one another. An enthusiastic yes means yes. No means no. An interested maybe means let’s keep exploring. A tentative maybe means no. I want to make sure that we are always on the same page. I maintain healthy boundaries, including legal boundaries. Everything we do is consensual. I will also not engage in anything that does not excite me or things that I am not into because it is important for me to genuinely enjoy my time with you. You can trust that it will not take place unless you and I have consented to it.

Please note that I adhere to a strict safety protocol at all times as our safety is my priority.

Lastly, I have the desire to connect with like-minded folks and continue to grow and evolve as a dominatrix. I ask that once you’ve had a chance to process your experience with me, please shoot me an email sharing your afterthoughts. I love hearing anything and everything about your experience, feelings, and what I can do to improve. Feel free to write a testimonial as well on TER and or TOB.

Come, surrender to bliss with me. I would love to hear from you and turn your desires into reality.

THE DETAILS

Height: 4’11
Hair Color: Black
Eye Color: Black
Ethnicity: Vietnamese & Cambodian
Available to: Men, Women, Couples, Humans
Favorite Cuisines: Ethiopian, Indian, Mediterranean, French, Thai, Greek, Spanish, Italian, Vietnamese (Allergies: Cow’s milk, Bananas, Nuts, Melons)
Favorite Drinks: Kombucha, Coconut water, Espresso Martinis, Red wine, Tea, Smoothies
Favorite Flowers: Orchids, Roses, Tulips, Hydrangea
Favorite Color: Emerald, Earth tones, Black
My perfect date ideas: Going on an adventure, Hiking, Fitness class, Spa treatments, Float tank, Cooking class, Fine dining/food trucks, Anything romantic, Watching music or performance shows, Volunteer work, Attending tantric workshops or anything related to self-growth, Reading side by side

MORE ABOUT LADY SOKHA

Lady Sokha is an honest, compassionate, curious, queer, loving, nurturing, weird, polyamorous and grateful woman who tries to live each day to the fullest. Although she has a Master’s degree in Social Work she decided in June 2015 that she wanted to center her work around touch therapy, as she knows personally, the joy, transformation, and relief that touch can bring to those who are open to it. Her primary love language is through physical touch, whether it is giving or receiving. She believes that touch is essential to have in our everyday lives in order for us to thrive. She also believes that all people need some type of affection, no matter what walk of life they are from. Touch can be very powerful, healing, and magical. Lady Sokha is a Certified Tantra Educator through Source Tantra, Certified Dominatrix through the Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy, a Certified Professional Cuddler, a Certified Death Doula and Reiki practitioner. She is a dedicated lifelong learner and continues to deepen her studies around human sexuality and energy work.

She believes that sexual energy is the highest and purest form of spiritual energy and when you have a healthy alignment to your sex and sexuality it changes or can affect everything else in your life from the inside out. She also believes that our sexual health is the core of who we are and it’s where we came from. It’s our lifeforce!

Aside from offering therapeutic touch, she also teaches workshops, facilitates play parties, offers private tantric sessions for couples, and or private Kink/Fetish sessions. Lady Sokha is passionate about helping others release sexual shame and trauma. As she has moved through her own deep healings around sexual trauma, she has found freedom in embracing her own sexuality and invites others to live a life of sexual embodiment and empowerment. Her mission is to make the world a better place one orgasm at a time. Prior to the work that she does now, she worked as a medical social worker. She worked with patients with cancer, HIV/AIDS, and hospice. She has also worked with several populations that include: foster care, homelessness, substance abuse, mental health, LGBTQ, pregnant and parenting teens, at risk-youth, high school dropouts, survivors of sexual assault and older adults in long term care. Lady Sokha enjoys inspiring others to be their best self. During her free time she enjoys the outdoors, travel, health & fitness, reading, fine dining, meditating, spending quality time with family and friends, dancing, yoga, participating in transformational festivals and workshops, and volunteering with hospice patients.