“If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try.”
— Seth Godin
I am not your typical dominatrix — or so I’m often told. I create a sanctuary free of judgment and stigma, where you have full permission to explore, embrace, and celebrate your kinks and fetishes. I’m a lightworker who plays in the dark erotic arts to dissolve barriers, open new pathways, and invite deep connection and transformation. I go where most won’t — with care, intuition, and fierce respect.
My intention is to co-create an experience in which you feel safe and secure enough to ask — or beg — for what you truly desire. Every person is unique, and so each session I design is unique to you: a space where you feel seen, heard, and held.
Heavily devoted to kink, I offer a wide range of play and scenarios. My sessions are intimate, heart-centered, erotic, and deeply engaging, guided by intuition and empathy. No matter how “out there” your fetish feels, bring it. I delight in taking people to new depths that can become profoundly transformative.
Shame, guilt, or embarrassment have no place in my world. Whether this is the first time you’ve shared your deepest fantasies or your secrets are longtime companions, there is no kink-shaming here. Ask me anything — what you reveal stays with me, and I honor your confidentiality.
Discretion, respect for boundaries, and consent are non-negotiable. I have zero tolerance for boundary violation or slut-shaming. I am sex-positive, body-positive, and fully inclusive — welcoming all races, classes, cultures, ages, genders, appearances, religions, and sexual orientations. Come as you are; together we’ll explore the possibilities of your submission and your desires.
Trust, clear communication, vulnerability, and honesty are at the core of my practice. I am honored when clients entrust me with their feelings and curiosity. I love sharing new experiences, testing edges, and diving deep when you choose to go there. I believe in healing through kink and in the beauty of bringing people into altered, expansive states — subspace included — where mind, body, and soul can find harmony.
I identify as a sensual sadist: sensual and sadistic in equal measure. I relish the thought of making you my pain slut — from light to intense — and taking control. If pain is not your thing, that’s more than okay; your boundaries are sacred. There are countless other pathways to pleasure and transformation: therapeutic touch, cuddling, tantric massage, breathwork, and more. If you have ideas, tell me.
I’m easy to talk to and care deeply about building a relationship with those who share energy with me. My style is playful, direct, and sensual; I often communicate with my eyes as much as my words. My priority is your well-being — I aim to leave you better than I found you.
Consent is paramount. All play is negotiated beforehand, and I prioritize open dialogue throughout any scene. Enthusiastic yes means yes; no means no. An interested maybe invites continued exploration; a tentative maybe is a no. I maintain healthy and legal boundaries and will not engage in anything that does not excite me — our mutual desire matters.
Safety is always my priority; I adhere to strict safety protocols at all times.
I am continually evolving as a dominatrix and welcome connection with like-minded souls. Afterward, I invite you to share your reflections — I welcome feedback, afterthoughts, and testimonials. Come surrender to bliss with me; I’d love to hear from you and to help turn your desires into reality.
A CLOSER LOOK
Height: 4’11
Hair Color: Black
Eye Color: Black
Ethnicity: Vietnamese & Cambodian
Available to: Men, Women, Couples, Humans
Favorite Cuisines: Ethiopian, Indian, Mediterranean, French, Thai, Greek, Spanish, Italian, Vietnamese (Allergies: Bananas, Nuts, Melons)
Favorite Drinks: Pressed Juices, Espresso Martinis, Amaretto Sour, Red wine (not sweet), Tea, Smoothies, Citrus-based cocktails, Mocktails
Favorite Flowers: Orchids, Roses, Tulips, Hydrangea
Favorite Color: Emerald, Earth tones, Black
My perfect date ideas: Going on an adventure, Hiking, Yoga/Meditation, Spa treatments, Float tank, Cooking class, Fine dining/food trucks, Gym, Anything romantic, Live Music, Comedy, Theater or Performance shows, Volunteer work, Attending tantric workshops or anything related to self-growth, Picnics
MORE ABOUT LADY SOKHA
Lady Sokha is an honest, compassionate, curious, queer, loving, nurturing, delightfully unconventional, polyamorous, and deeply grateful woman who lives each day as an act of devotion to pleasure, connection, and growth. Though she holds a Master’s degree in Social Work, in 2015 she followed her true calling—devoting her path to the erotic and healing arts, centering her work around the transformative power of touch. Having personally experienced its magic, she knows that touch can dissolve shame, unlock joy, and open the door to profound release and expansion.
Physical touch is her love language, her art, and her medicine. She believes it is essential for our thriving—an elemental need that nourishes body, heart, and spirit. In her hands, touch becomes a language of safety, intimacy, and surrender. She sees it as sacred: a force of healing and magic that can awaken pleasure, presence, and wholeness in anyone willing to receive it.
Lady Sokha is not only a Certified Tantra Educator through Source Tantra, but also a Certified Dominatrix through the Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy, a Certified Professional Cuddler, Death Doula, and Reiki practitioner. She is endlessly devoted to deepening her craft, weaving together sexuality, energy work, and spiritual exploration. For her, sexual energy is the purest and most powerful spiritual energy—it is our lifeforce, the essence from which everything is born. When we embrace our sexuality with love and alignment, every other part of life transforms from the inside out.
Through her offerings, Lady Sokha creates spaces where curiosity, desire, and healing intertwine. She guides individuals and couples through private tantric journeys, sensual kink and fetish explorations, workshops, and play parties. Her passion lies in helping others release sexual shame, reclaim pleasure, and step fully into embodied empowerment. Having walked her own path of healing from sexual trauma, she now holds space for others to discover their own freedom. Her mission is radiant and unapologetic: to awaken the world to its erotic potential, one orgasm at a time.
Before embodying this path, Lady Sokha worked as a medical social worker, walking alongside patients with cancer, HIV/AIDS, and those in hospice. She has also served diverse communities, including foster youth, survivors of sexual assault, LGBTQ communities, and those navigating homelessness, addiction, or mental health struggles. This deep history of service infuses her current work with compassion, empathy, and fierce devotion to human resilience.
Beyond her offerings, Lady Sokha delights in exploring life through her senses—whether traveling to new places, savoring fine dining, dancing under the stars, flowing in yoga, or diving into books and festivals that transform and inspire. She treasures connection with loved ones, quiet meditation, movement, and service, especially volunteering with hospice patients. In all things, she seeks to embody love, freedom, and ecstasy.